If you think that youre aroused by the mere idea of swinging, just wait until you jump in. Reading doesnt do swinging justice at allonly feeling and touching make for truly believing.

As you probably already know, soft swinging is the first attempt at swinging for many couples and interested folks. Heck, you may have already tried soft swinging without even realizing it.

You had a few too many drinks, got a little friendly with someones husband. And you knew darn well that it wasnt about love or being unfaithful to your partner, it was about animal lust.

Maybe he smelled just right or she was wearing something that displayed her best assets

If It Should Happen Spontaneously

The lights are low. Maybe youre at a party with your partner and youve become separated for a moment. Youre still fully aware of where the other is, but you just let a moment take you. Youve probably already talked about the possibility at this point.

So go on. Lets see where the sexual tension might lead.

A little touch here, a stroke there. It can even be as simple as a long, slow kiss. You close your eyes and disappear in the moment.

And what if you catch your husband or partner out of the corner of your eye?

Its incredibly erotic to see your partner with someone else, even if its innocent to begin with. Just to see hands that have touched you running down someone elses skin can be a turn on by itself.

Watching can be the perfect way to begin in soft swinging. Its a great way to seduce your self into getting into the action.

Perhaps you just needed a little motivation to get started.

And What If You Plan It Out?

Of course, you may have already decided that something might be happening on a particular evening. Youve sat and talked for a while, when the conversation turns to sex.

But planning doesnt make it any less hot or exciting.

Maybe it starts with just a massage of the shoulders or a move into anothers personal space.

Now is your chance to go for it. Dont be shy; you know that the other one wants it.

You can go back to your high school days and just make out, or you can take it further with blatant groping and stroking. Explore this new person, what do they feel like? What makes them different from your partner?

But keep it cool right now because youre just starting, just teasing really at this point. You want to keep everyone excited and anxious for the next time.

Your hearts are racing and your minds are anxious for the next time.

But go slow. Wanting more from the swinging experience is a good thing and you want to make sure that youre completely comfortable before moving up the action.

And the best part of slow swinging is that you get to go home with a partner that is just ready to finish off anything that has already been started.